There comes a point in time for every woman that many would say is the most important decision of her life. That decision is choosing the person she wishes to spend the rest of her life with. However, when we sometimes struggle to make the smallest decisions in life, how do we make such an important one?
Marriage is a sacred bond between two people and it is a promise to support and love one another so that it is possible to raise a happy family. In Islam, family life is highly valued. So how should she make this decision? Well, as always in Islam we should follow the example of our beloved Prophet (S.A.W); in particular his marriage with his first wife, Hazrat Khadija (R.A), which was one of the most loving and best of marriages. Many wealthy Quraysh men had already asked for her hand in marriage, but they were all declined. She was one of the noblest women around, coming from a very renowned family. She was also quite beautiful and wealthy due to her success in business. However, Khadija (R.A) did not marry a man for his wealth but for his noble character; we too can learn from Khadija (R.A) when we choose our own life partner.
Hence, when choosing your marriage partner decide from their character and their love of Allah. These are the two best reasons for marrying someone. Remember, we should live our lives only to please the Almighty and a pious husband with the love of the Creator in his heart will love you and help you to raise good children so your whole family can have a peaceful life and a successful hereafter.
